A really fantastic post and reminder that the mental health concerns have no schedule, they have no plan and they sneak up on us. As you mentioned sometimes we can get upset and angry but letting empathy and care shine threw instead is an amazing effort when it can be so relentless. Sometimes we forget that its also very difficult not just for those with a mental illness but also those who love and care for them. Wish you all the best with Mrs Alienbutt. She sounds like she's lucky to have someone like you. Great work!