This would be a lot easier if women actually looked at themselves.

Then their duplicitous messages could be understood, however, women also like to be coy, to conceal their true intentions. To be the gender that is not understood.

What men do not realize is that for 80% of men, If you are not the top 20%, the alpha studs, then you are not supposed to talk to women sexually, at all, ever.

If a woman approaches you, sometime just before she becomes barren, then do not think she finally sees you as the good solid man that you are. You are there only to support her children for the rest of your life. (They may actually be created with your genes, but there is no guarantee) So, expect to pay for the rest of your life, along with a strong possibility of being thrown out of the house when the children reach the age of five. (when the children need a dad)

It is helpful for these beta men to understand that in her mind, she has settled. And that she is pretending to love you. She is pretending to enjoy sex. Although women are very good at this... hey, you only have to lay there, there comes a point where she can no longer stand the pretending and the "having settled" gets to her, at this point, she really hates you, despises you, loathes you.

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If you are in the top 20% of men, do whatever you want. Women will make allowances. They will get on their knees. They will beg. They will try to climb through your window. Anything you do is ok by them, as long as they get a chance.