Do you take people’s concern as priority, or yours?
Well, remember that many if not all (I'm not a psychologist) the problems we have internally originate from our upbringing, in the way we were raised.
How can we not put others before us, when as children we are taught: behave well, bathe, dress properly, do not cry! What will others say about you?
Then the opinion of others is above your own.
Do you prioritize your heart (emotions) than your mind?
I try to put the reason on the decisions, but many times the emotions overcome, imagine that you are 2 hours in a queue and a person arrives to sneak a few posts more in front of you, obviously the reason is not going to impose; anger and fury appear and causes you to kill the person who does it. Or at least, mentally you think the person's gonna get hit by a truck or a bus.
Do you admit the truth to yourself?
The problem with truth is that you decide to create your own truth and we become blind to false expectations and live in our own bubble.
Dilemmas!
Tell me! Would you kill one person to save five? The dilemma where you drive a train whose way is to run over 5 people (usually children) but you have the option to change the route, but this new route the train will run over a good friend of yours. Choose.
I didn't invent this, it's a mental experiment initiated and devised by the British philosopher Philippa Foot
Thanks for sharing
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