My heart goes out to you Hive account@tiandao. But you were so good at staying centered during these very challenging times. I am so proud of you and admire the way you took things in stride. I know it is not easy. I go through challenges almost everyday, despite my efforts to be positive and calm. I guess because we are A+ students our homework is the hardest!!! So much for trying to be so good.

I am glad that your AC is working now. I can't imagine how hot it is there in Arizona. Hawaii has also been very hot and it is miserable here too. Sometimes it get so hot that you can't do much. Because of global warming, the earth's temperature is rising so the weather patterns are getting more extreme.

It is unfortunate that your fiance's children are being used to irritate you both. That is bad on the ex's girlfriend's part. As karma will go, eventually she may regret her actions. I have no advice but to just say it hurts the children the most. You guys will have to keep up the good communication with them so that they know that they did not do anything wrong. They are the most impressionable.

Wishing you cooler days and nights, a well functioning AC unit and much peace and happiness. Keep being positive and better days will eventually come. I know how hard you are trying. Please take care tiandao! .....Cabbagepatch :D