Hello everyone, I thought I leave this quote here and commentate on this because I have been through this pain during my life and one particular reason for that is because back in 2013, I have done a mistake in an anime convention that I do regret now and I have told everyone that I love taking pictures of female cosplayers that are barefoot.
Its what I geniunely enjoyed taking pictures of in conventions, some girls were cool with it but a few others were not and THOSE PEOPLE spread false rumors on me that I won't mention here since its personal but they are related to girl's feet. And this quote I was looking for and thought about this.
I am aware I made this mistake to actually publicly admitted about a foot fetish I have with girls but I do not force it on anyone and respect their boundaries and yet the ones that were against it were exaggerating on the "creepy" things I do with them but yet it really is not true.
But thanks to those people that spreaded those false rumors on me, now many people in the cosplay community knows about it and many stays away from me. Years later, I have been denied to go to a video game tournament back in 2015 because of the type of photoshoot I enjoy doing in my country because no one else dared to do it here and I wanted to be unique. And like I said, some girls supported it too.
CAN YOU BELIEVE JUST LAST YEAR, SECURITY STOPPED ME FROM PHOTOSHOOTING A FEMALE COSPLAYER AT LEGAL AGE AND AT AGREEMENT BETWEEN US BOTH DOING SO BECAUSE OF THE REPUTATION I HAD?!
NOT ONLY THAT, I HAD ONE OTHER PERSON DEMANDING ME TO DELETE MY DEVIANTART PHOTOS OF COSPLAYERS WHO WERE COOL WITH ME UPLOADING THE PICTURES ON THE SITE AND NEVER TOLD ME I HAD TO TAKE THEM OFF MYSELF
If you are curious to know what kind of photoshoots I have done, here is the link to my gallery and hope you like them because most people I shown this to LOVED it!
http://denoxphotography.deviantart.com/gallery
Here is one of the images you can see now of one I took some time back, what do you think?
I also perhaps made some mistakes on YouTube by the way I talk and something I may have said that I was not aware at that time offended someone. I always apologized after realizing it but I do still have trolls judging me as well.
I am sure many people has been judged for ONE simple mistake you do that can affect you for the rest of your life and people remembering the bad things you did MUCH better than the good things you do in society... if you try to do a good thing after doing a mayor bad thing, any good deeds can get overshadowed by the good stuff.
We live in a very judgemental society and Steemit is the only platform aside from my deviantart community that I am comfortable in explaining these issues I had and will likely not be judged barely at all and if I do get judged, I no longer care because this is who I am and what I enjoy doing!
What do you guys think about this? We all make mistakes in our lives, some small and some big. Even in many work places, any little mistakes you make can get you fired which is stupid.
I am also making the mistake of not posting blogs here often... mainly perhaps of writers block, focused more on YouTube videos or the lack of notifications on Steemit. The moment you take a hiatus, many of your fans will forget you... permanently.
If you have a story about being judged by people for doing something you enjoy but they do not understand, I would be happy to hear it and help you on this.