There is a statement that gets all guys shivering whenever it is mentioned in respect or with relation to relationships and as fierce as it may be its not always just relative to emotional but to much greater and wider ties.
THE ABILITY TO COMMIT is a huge attribute that if acquired complements a number of traits that we often mention like the famous 3D's , resilience, tactical and logical thinking to mention a few. It is the ability to start a project or chase an idea and actually make a follow up through and through until it is realised.
People fail because the adrenaline rush that they have when they are within their eureka phase gets blown by the wind when they begin or are in the process of actualising their plans. This is probably a result of a number of obstacles ( especially considering the state and condition of the society, economy) like a variety of imbalances and corruption in most systems(large and small , simple and diverse). However, this is not in any form a solid excuse for what i would like to call "idea-prostitution".
As much as jumping from one spouse to "another" is not as moral so is failure to honour a project already in motion. It is somewhat equivalent to getting married and not honouring your covenant in all aspects and can be labelled as COWARDICE.
To be a powerful woman or superman you need to honour your vows. Stay faithful to your idea and make it work. Dont start a project you already feel like it wont bear fruits as it will be a waste of resources and time. Start small, commit to your school work, your team, your family even your body(exercise etc) then grow from there.
Develop a winners mindset, face small challenges first and grow the ability to get up when you fall. All these will be essential to develop an attitude that allows you to commit throughout standing steadfast towards achieving your goal.
Dont allow yourself to fly low and settle for less. Be the guy with the ring and stick to your vows. Lets burn away IDEA-PROSTITUTION.
