WHO's RESPONSIBLE FOR WOMEN IMMORALITIES ????

The other day, I saw a sponsored post on instagram.

It was the video of a beautiful black girl wearing an oversized stripped shirt, with make up- no foundation, no false eye lashes, just faint red lipstick and black eye liner drawn thinly on her face. God.

Her eyes are so gorgeous. When I turned on the sound to hear what this pretty girl was saying,I heard this:"Please ladies, let's always be covered up. If you wear skimpy things, a man begins to think sexually about you in his mind even when he goes home to be with his wife.

And then, he has already committed adultery because of you. Please let us not lead men to commit adultery. Cover up" - I was like.

So people still think like this? People still believe that theway to help men with their sexual issues is to teach women to wearmore clothes? Is that the problem? I feel that men should be offended by this.
Society puts so much of sexual responsibility on the woman that it almost insinuates that men are absolute imbeciles when it comes to resisting temptation.
When it comes to self control. So, we teach women to shrink themselves in order to create more space for men to be righteous. Yet, nobody has asked why that has not worked. The older generation still abuses the baby generation. Men still rape boys and girls alike, women still rape boys and girls alike. Yet a beautiful girl thinks that the morality issue of the world will be solved by what types of clothes women choose to wear?

There is a mad woman in the streets roaming naked and the man who sexually abuses her does not do so because she is naked but because he is mad himself. Now, this girl was quoting scripture, but I felt like... truth is... she sounded brain washed to me, you know, like someone merely mouthing what whoever has said to her. This is why it is important for everyone to study for themselves and ask; if women are the reason for men's immorality, who is responsible for women's immorality? Women?
There is a man harassing me in my office. It first started with wordsand then proceeded to his mannerisms (licking his lips, smacking them, bringing his tongue out, asking me to walk in front of him so he can look at my buttocks) whenever he is around me. Then, he begins to touch me 'playfully' in strange ways. I felt guilty for a while so I couldn't bark him away the first few times. After talking about this with some friends and my mom, I began to realise that it's not my fault that he is behaving like an animal.

Doing away with the guilt gave me the needed energy to ask him to stop, to walk away when I feel harassed. And I feel that is what women need. I have a ton of things to say about this, but I really don't want this post to be too long. So I'm just gonna say one last thing.

Stop telling one gender that the way another gender dresses is the reason why they cannot control themselves. It is too degrading, too shameful for both genders.