Sex Is Made For The Married Ones
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Sex they say is sweet but it is meant to be enjoyed by only the married ones. Sex was designed by God but of course there is a time for it. It was not meant for just anybody who desires it. It was meant for the married couples who have gone to the alter for better for worse. Although, there may not be a specific part of the Bible where God actually said this or that is the reason why He made sex for humans.
Nonetheless, in the Bible in Ephesians 5, God did stress on the reason for marriage. It was basically made to be a sign. You may want to ask what sign but yea it was to represent a cordial relationship between our Saviour and the church.
The reasons why God made sex may include any of the following;
- Reproduction see Genesis 1 vs 27-28
- So that couples could be submissive to themselves as well as learn how to sacrifice
- To strengthen the bond of unity
- To get relief from stress
- Most times it is for the sake of physical pleasure
However, that is not why I am writing this article. Several young individuals have gone astray and put theirselve in bondage by bonding with whoever they see or meet. The most annoying part is that several individuals have now turned this into a business. They pay the females and do lots of nonsense that goes against the will of God. Let me ask you some questions;
- Would you ever want to ruin your destiny just because of an enjoyment that wouldn't last you longer than 5-10minutes?
- Would you ever want to ruin your destiny just because of the penny you would be given that wouldn't sustain you forever?
- Would you ever want to lose focus of how the future looks like just because you want to wear designers and rock the latest things you never worked for that would soon trend away?
Believe me, what you never worked earnestly for will never ever last long. It is quiet necessary to note that measured against eternity, our time on earth is just a blink of an eye but the consequences of our lives would last forever.
Every single moment we live on earth really counts and you should realise that the moments we spend in this earthly bodies of ours is always the time spent away from our eternal home.
As a lady,the only time you think you look better is when a guy is in between your legs? You think the only time your clothes would look nice is when it is on a guy's bedroom floor with you being naked?
Let's really be realistic ,the trauma you have faced in the past wasn't so easy. Even Jesus wept that you went through it. But what he wants isn't for you to keep living and ruminating on those past experiences.
I really really don't know the way you are picturing your life. But just know that the way you see your life determines your destiny.
Fine, you gather a lot from the dirty job you do but have you ever thought of what someone once said that YOUR SELF WORTH IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM YOUR NET WORTH? Our net worth are our possessions and will only give us temporary happiness. Nothing would ever compensate you for not realising yourself and not knowing who you really are.
Now, I really don't want you to care about what they say about you and your past because those who follow the crowd would definitely get lost in it someday. And now, what ultimately matters wouldn't be what they say about you again but what God says about you.
ARE YOU STILL GOING TO STOOP SO LOW TO KEEP RUINING YOUR OWN DESTINY YOUR OWN SELF?
I trust you wouldn't do that.
SHUN SEXUAL IMMORTALITYSHUN ALL SEXUAL LOOSENESS
IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW YOU FEEL YOU HAVE LOST IT ALREADY! GOD IS ALWAYS WILLING TO ACCEPT YOU