Our kids becomes our boss
Hello Motherhood community of hive, I am back to share some of the healthy and happy bonding moment Me and My lil Princess been doing this past few day.
Our kids become our boss sometimes but not to the extent that we need to spoiled her, I personally never spoiled my girl because in the end it's me who will suffer the consequence of spoiling her, like what I've seen with other Moms.
Most kids have tantrums and I think it's normal since they are kids they still don't understand everything even if we explain it to them, but sometimes those tantrums can be corrected with much explanation from us parents.
My girl do have tantrums but she is easy to understand everything if you are willing to explain to her the things that causes her tantrums.
Pancake mix
Last June if the current year we spend vacation with my siblings and there I was ablt to prepare her a pancake for the first time together with her nieces and nephews and I did not know that she will like pancake and enjoy eating it.
Wish granted
Vacation ended and we're back here in the province, she is asking me to cook her a pancake, and that time we don't have any stocks of the ready mix pancake but everyday she is insisting and begging me to do it, so what I did is promise her that the next time that I will do my grocery I will buy her a pancake mix, and hearing my promise makes her happy and excited.
Preparing to mix
Weeks passed and I did our monthly grocery, I bought her what I promised, and after seeing the pancake mix she was so happy and proud to show it to her father. Then the next day, while she was sleeping, I started preparing the pancake mix and maybe she feels what I am preparing so she get up immediately and watch me mixing the pancake and while cooking it, and right after I finish one she was all smiled and tasted it, and after she told so yummy and delicious Mama and I smile.
And when her father came from work she very proud to tell him that she had a pancake for snacks.
The satisfied lil girl
After the pancake experience just a few weeks she never ask it me again for pancake.
The kids maybe become our boss but we should not forget that we are the still the Mom who needs to be authorive and disciplinarian when the kids tantrums are beyond control, remember we are the Mom that needs to be follow and not to be a follower of our kids.
Greetings,
Annie