I think the great man is not the one who must come all the way to see you.
The great man is not he who is willing to rain just to drive and pick you.
The great man is not also he who in order to get your love to sacrifice anything for you.
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I think the so-called great man is he who wants to come with all his courage to meet your parents and ask you to be perfect of his Religion.
Because as good as any effort and goodness of a man in the heart problem, if there has been no intervention between a guardian and a lawful halal, it is just a mode that can not be denied!.
Because a good man will come in a good way.
whereas the humble man will come in a humiliating or unkind way.
And the good women will not be willing to be visited in a way that is not good. Except in a noble way..