Including the problem of men in particular but did not prevent me from giving my opinion
The motive for marriage, perhaps when a lot is a natural act that gives us life without trying to understand the reasoning or thinking about our motives and desires, We really want to get married just because marriage is a clear or individual desire (financial, physical, moral..) or because we want to achieve greater.
About myself, I see marriage as a partnership project to find someone who lives with you before your happiness, who will accept you in all your cases, who will share your life with everything you will find when years take you to build a family On your own, that your offspring will continue until after you die. And to achieve what God has commanded us to accomplish on the ground.
To make a marriage for the sake of beauty or to see a man only the bank balance to achieve your wishes regardless of all the losses, this will take you before the other and so our goal of the physical purpose of marriage will only break the desire from time to time and emptiness and aversion.
Legitimate marriage must meet all requirements for success.