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Judging from his age he is not young anymore, aged who is already dusk even close to the night, Mr. Suyatno 58 years of daily filled with caring for his wife who is sick wife is also old. They married already over 32 years
They are blessed with four children where the beginning of the ordeal, after his wife gave birth to the fourth child tiba2 paralyzed legs and can not be moved it happened for 2 years, stepping on the third year all the body becomes weak even feels not boned his tongue can not be moved again.
Every day Mr. suyatno bathing, cleaning up the dirt, feeding, and lifting his wife up on the bed. Before leaving for work he put his wife in front of the TV so that his wife did not feel lonely.
Although his wife can not talk but he always sees his wife smiling, luckily Pak suyatno business place is not so far from his house that day he came home to feed his wife to lunch. the evening he came home to bathe his wife, change clothes and after maghrib he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling apa2 course he experienced all day.
Although his wife could only look but could not respond, Mr. Suyatno was quite happy even he always teased his wife every time he went to sleep.
This routine was done by Mr. Suyatno for about 25 years, he patiently took care of his wife even while raising the four of their hearts, now their adult children live the youngest who still in college.
On one day the four children of suyatno gathered at their parents' house while visiting his mother. Because after their child married already living with their respective families and pak suyatno decided that his wife was the carer, all he wanted was one, that all his children succeeded.
With a careful sentence the eldest son said "Sir we want to take care of the mother, since we were small see the father took care of the mother there is no slight complaint out of the lips of father ....... ..even father would not allow us to keep the mother ".. with tears in her eyes the boy continued his words" already the fourth time we allow the father to marry again, we think ibupun will allow it, when father enjoy your father's old age with sacrifices like this already can not bear to see the father, we promise we will take good care of mother in turn ".
Mr. suyatno replied to the things their children did not expect.
"My children .......... If marriage and life in this world is only for lust, maybe father will marry .. again, but know with your mother beside me that is more than enough, he has give birth to you .. (momentary throat is closed), ... you who I always missed in this world with a love that no one can replace it with anything. Let's ask your mother if she wants something like this. You want a happy father, is it that you can be happy to leave your mother now, you want that father who is still given God's health care by others, how about your mother who is still sick. "
For a moment burst into tears of children pak suyatno, they see the little grains fall dipelupuk eyes mother suyatno.. with pained eye of the eyes of her beloved husband ..
Finally, Mr. suyatno invited by one of the private TV station to become a resource and they also asked the question to Mr. Suyatno why can survive for 25 years taking care of his wife who can not do anything .. that's when it burst into tears with guests present in the studio most women are not able to restrain. That's where Mr. Suyatno tells.
"If a man in this world glorifies a love in his marriage, but does not give (give time, energy, thought, attention) then it is futility. That love is giving.
I believe that God chose my wife to be my life companion, and when she is healthy she patiently cares for me, loves me with heart and heart not only with eyes, and she gives to me 4 children who are funny. Now he is sick of sacrificing for our love together..and it is a test for me, whether I can hold a commitment to love it for what it is, including healthy or sick. When he is healthy, I'm not necessarily looking for a successor, especially if he is sick ,,, "