I often think that what makes us individuals is how we face the adversity. The bad things in life can not define us. It's how we respond to them that matters.

Life will throw us some ups and downs. These situations are what will make you, never can they break you.

That's a good attitude to have towards facing obstacles. That said, some negative experiences brake people, unfortunately. My own bad experiences would have pushed me over the edge if not for love others have for me. If I was alone I would be broken or I simply wouldn't be at all.

Even the worst experiences make the best stories.

My worst experiences might make a good story but I never feel like telling it. :D