Sometimes we just look into the mirror and we think to ourselves that we are piece of shit. As sad as it even confident people like Tom Cruise or Ryan Reynolds. How do they do it. There life is harder than yours. They are not only hearing themselves say that they're a piece of shit but also from the media and from people on Instagram or Twitter.
How do they do it? It's a simple step. When they face themselves in the mirror they don't do what you do. They tell themselves that their thoughts aren't true and that they are beautiful and that they are a fucking man. They know that they amazing because of their personality and hobbies not because they are famous.
They know they shouldn't just feel good based on their achievements because it wasn't their achievements that makes them the man they are in front of that mirror. It was who they are before and after they became famous. If you have shit mindsets and your hobbies get you no where i life you'll never achieve greatness and there will be very little to prove to yourself that you're a man.
Remember that if you base you being a man on your achievements then what happens if you get into a situation that you couldn't control and your achievements become meaningless then you have lost you lose focus on the proof for being the man you are. Even when those events happen to you you're still be the same man. Same amazing personality doing the same things that make your life better
So next time you look into the mirror and feel like shit and not like a man just remember that you are a man. You have a warm personality and there are people who want to be around you and your cool life.