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Today i will be writing on fear,because fear is a supernatural force that can crush your self confidence
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Failure is a voice that can speak against your future if you accept it today.
Failure is not your friend don't bargain with it, when you bargain with failure you will not have self confidence of what you can do today, but the only thing you see ahead of you is fear. Fear is the only weapon that can break your spirit and disorganise yourself confidence, and the only thing fear does is to break your spirit, your bones and divide your thought.
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When your heart is divided from your spirit the only picture you see ahead of you is failure. Proverbs 17:22 says: A glad heart makes a happy face ,but a broken spirit saps a person's strength.
In other for you to over come fear, your heart and spirit need to work together. I have seen certain people because of fear abandoned their career to start something different from their dreams thinking it would bring glad tidings to them but it is fear that is driving them away from the place of their destiny. In order for you to overcome fear share your problem with one another for by so doing they will help you to overcome your fears.
There was a particular man who lived in the village,he had a fight with his friend in the bush during hunting,accidentally he killed the man,he was so terrified,didn't know what to do because he had killed his friend and nobody knew about it, fear took a hold on him,he ran to his wife and told his wife about it then his wife built self confidence in him and encouraged him to get a hold of himself,then she said to her husband; "let us go and do away with the body before people finds out" they went and buried the body secretly, it was just the two of them that knew what happened. This man was no longer afraid thinking his secret has been covered. Some months passed,he had a quarrel with his wife and the wife reminded him about his secret that she would expose him to the whole villagers, his fear came back knelt down begging his wife not to expose him but she refused and gave him a condition that hence forth he would be subject to her, whatever she tells him to do that he would do, the man agreed because of fear of what would happen to him " his fears returns" even when his brothers were around,his wife maltreats him. A day came he decided to open up to his brothers what he did in the past by killing his friend, they encouraged him and he took them to where the incident occurred,and dug out the body and replaced it with that of a goat and told their brother that when his wife threatened to take him to the villagers that he should not be afraid because his fears has been buried, so take back your position as the man of the house.
Several month pass by, his wife shouted at him asked him to do the house chores as he used to,but he refused because his fears were no more,then the wife said to him; "i will expose you to the villagers about your secret" the husband told her to go ahead with her threat, because his brothers had told him what to say if his wife reports him to the villagers,she went ahead and told the villagers what her husband has done and took the villagers to the very spot where her husband buried the body. They dug the place and saw a dead goat instead of a dead body everyone were surprised even his wife, then the man told the villagers that he told his wife that he buried a human being there but it was a goat to see if he can trust his wife in time of trouble. The whole villagers praised the man and asked the man to send his wife away that she is not worthy to be his wife.
Friends! Nobody is above mistakes, when you fail to correct your mistakes,you will continue to make more mistakes. The mistake that man made was that he didn't trust his brothers but trusted his wife and the one that he put his trust on betrayed him,that was his first mistake. When the people you put your trust on fail to encourage you in time of your fears,don't fall a victim of circumstances, don't keep quite you can still trust somebody because you don't know who would be of help to you tomorrow. The man in the story did not keep his mouth shot,his brothers that he did not trust helped him to solve his fears.
Have you been heart broken, have you been in a relationship where the one you trusted disappointed you? Don't be afraid to start up another relationship, don't conclude in fears that all people are the same "NO" break that fear from your heart and start all over, forget about the past, do away with the picture of the past because if you don't, the only thing you see in the future is fear.
Conclusion:
Fear is of the devil, for God has not given you the spirit of fear,but the spirit of boldness, when you are bold the only thing you see is victory. There is a saying that "Tough time never last but tough people do" so be bold enough to face your challenges because this is the only way you can conquer the fears of life because life itself is a risk .
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