Instead, we must focus on the opportunities for getting what we want... It is better than blaming the circumstances for our failures.. We can’t get over them, but we have to go through them... We can’t control circumstances... They will be there always, often not in friendly way... But that doesn’t mean that we will let them control our dreams, aspirations, goals or let them guide about what we want out of our life. They are all ours and we have to fight the circumstances, creating opportunities for getting them... Don’t let the life be, make it what we want it to be...