Some time ago i had a philosophy mood so i listened to some talks from Alan Watts. Well the talk talk i am sharing with you quite profoundly effected my perspective on life. No matter what is truth, let's just pretend, that everything that happened to you, you actually wanted. Let's say you are born with just one hand, you have diabetes and you are blind. If you pretend like this is what you really wanted, you stop playing a victim. This is just incredibly short summary of the talk, just listen to Alan Watts if you are interested in this type of philosophy (I have to say this way of thinking helped me SO MUCH, i feel like a different person, i actually enjoy myself more and i don't feel hopeless as i felt sometimes before):
Alan Watts was a British philosopher, writer, and speaker, best known as an interpreter and populariser of Eastern philosophy for a Western audience. He is incredible smart, and his voice is so soothing, i enjoy his talks so much.
Have a beautiful day :)