We all know marriage to be of a formal or legal recognized union, consisting of two people as partners in personal relationship.
Marriage is more unless like a shoe. When you get yourself an oversize shoe, be ready to drag it along throughout your entire life and when you also get yourself an under-size shoe, be also ready to experience or feel pains throughout your entire life.
One thing about most marriages today is that you don’t remove or drop your shoe at any point in your life no matter the kind of pains or stress you go through. I don’t think we all want to find ourselves in an over-sized shoe or an under-sized one as well, so before we select or buy our own shoes we need to be very careful in other to avoid much pains and stress.
Below are three strong points we need to consider before buying our own shoes:
- POSITION
Actually, different sizes of shoes are not positioned or placed at the same place. There are places for laced-up shoes, snickers, sports footwear, court shoe and many more. We also have Adult shoe size, Young people shoe size and also Children shoe size. My beloved Steemian brothers, you cannot find your shoe size everywhere you find yourself, you can’t also find yourself your type everywhere you go my beloved Steemian sisters. Your husband or wife simply can’t be everywhere you go. You actually can’t be a Christian and be looking for a partner (husband or wife) at a club.
Always try to stick to your values, and trust me, therein you shall find someone just like you, but the problem is when your values are not defined, then anyone around can just match with you. Try your best to discover yourself and define your values.
- PHYSICAL APPEARANCE:
Most at times, people normally look out for beautiful and wealthy ones and they end up making a wrong choice. Don’t only look out for beautiful or handsome ones, the cheap or nice ones but rather look for the one that matches you exactly (your size). Not every beautiful lady is for you and not every wealthy, handsome, or intelligent guy is for you, but rather look out for the ones that is only meant for you, the one who you met at your life’s journey, the one that aligns with your belief and values. It’s really important to know the exact place you are going in life before you think of getting yourself a partner.
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- PERCEPTIONS:
Normally in this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not allowed or permitted to try the shoe on before buying them. This is the main reason why it is important to seek guidance and counseling from people who have already bought their shoe or are in the business of directing people to make a right decision in selecting their shoes (Marriage Counsellors, Pastors and Relationship Coaches). And most importantly, in other to avoid much time wasting, you need to consult the shoe manufacturer to tell you the shoe that will actually fit you (Almighty God).
We don’t just prepare ourselves just for a wedding ceremony, we prepare ourselves for marriage.
Ladies of today, get motivated when they attend most wedding ceremonies and they are willing to say YES to any guy. But Wait!!!!!! It’s not just the wedding oohh…., The wedding ceremony is just a day event so ask yourself, after the wedding WHAT’S NEXT?
Finally, Marriage is not something you can just rush to the market and pick because you like it or can purchase it or want to fit in certain aspect of your life….
##Ask questions
What’s the shoe size? (Values)
Where the shoe was made from (His/Her Background)
Who made the shoe? (Is He/She of the same faith?)
How much that is price of the shoe (His/Her interest)
Will the shoe match you? (Whether He/She will love and accept you for who you are)
How long will the shoe last? (His/Her Character)
Be well organized and established before marriage
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Motivation:
Dear Steemians, always remember many are dragging their foot and hardly would they reach their dream plan, many also are going through endless pains and I wish they could just pull off the shoes but no way!!!! I really do see people with beautiful shoes and when they show me their foot, I only see scars. Beloved, it’s not about the physical beauty, it’s about the size, you cannot know the size from afar, so come close and build a relationship, but first remember you are not permitted to try it on until you buy it
And to those who have already purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make the shoe your size again to fit you if only you would consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage.
