Is it not surprising how everyone seems to be talking about life? These days it seem like an hour old child seems to know so much about life, especially the cruelsome and negative aspect of it. So to speak, in a lot of people could even in their sleep describe hardship and how life is treating everyone badly- right?
Apparently , some people are quick enough to lament about how they are not living a happy life, how their boss is not paying them well and how if they are the president-things will get better.
Too fast to blame others for our misfortune and wish all day that everything is alright without the right altitude.
I have heard where it is said, "the raise is not for the strongest or the fastest, but for those that the Lord shows mercy upon. Yes, the strong may say to themselves, "I have all it takes, the charisma, intelligence and what have you?" while the fastest boast, I can get there in a jiffy- I have all it takes."
But you find out that at the end of the day, mere men, weak and troubled get to the finishing line before anyone else.
What am talking about
It is not enough to work hard, or strive to be the best in the game without the proper atitude. Without a genuine atitude of himility and one accord within oneself. Even when you try to fake it, things will continue to go wrong somewhere.
The humility and one accord spirit is understanding your nothingness. It is putting the ego and pride in you aside, it is accepting that you are just a poor handmade. It has nothing to do with bossing others around or thinking you made to be at the top only.
It is a spirit of calmness, love for yourself and others. It has nothing to do with you deserving more than others...
The moment we change our attitude towards life, things will start moving well. Like I keep saying, it is not enough to work hard, 8hours daily and probably does not have time for anything or one, it is about changing our attitude, those habits that turns our labour into drudgery.
You do not give people naughts and expect to get nuts. Be nice, apologize, be sweet, speak softly, politely. Think before you act, forgive, be free in your heart and soul. Nothing lasts for ever. Don't expect good people to stay always and do not feel bad when they leave, rather be an example and spread what you learnt in the course of their stay.
Bad times does not last forever, what ever you do have that at the back of your mind. Do not think that you are deserving of everything good, that is why you should be happy even when things are not so good as you expect.
Above all learn to mind your business. The book poor dad rich dad made this clear and ever since I mastered to mind my business, life does not come on me with hard blows. I am practically prepared for anything at anytime.
Till I come your way again, I remain yours 
I can be your counsellor, your adviser and your friend. I want you to live life to the fullest with the right altitude. Have a good life, you are one step away to success do not forget this. All it takes is the right attitude and humility at heart and soul. Stay blessed. I remain
