At the end it all falls back to the decision we make. We are a product of our decision and the greatest power man can ever wield is the power to make a decision. Never blame anyone for your current situation as it all falls back to the decision you have made at a point in time. It's a known fact that a horse can be forced to a river but cannot be forced to drink water so is the fact that you are the only one capable of taking the right decision for yourself. In life their is always a choice, so it is left to you to take the right decision.
Your decision can Make and Mar you... Always try to take the right decision.