The best person you can be in this life is YOURSELF.
You can't be at your best by being someone else or by portraying something that you're not. You can only be at your best by being YOU. Stop trying to please others by trying to mould yourself into what you think they want you to be. It won't make them love you more. It will only put you as a tool in their hands to toil with whenever they feel like. There's is no two you on the face of this earth. So anyone that doesn't appreciate and value your uniqueness doesn't deserve your attention either.
Stop living to please people. Live to please yourself and you will be amazed at the number of people that would want to come close to you when they discover that you're proud of who you are and are living to get the approval of just one person - yourself.
You're unique and valuable. Don't allow anything, anyone or yourself pressure to hide your uniqueness by trying to be what you're not(someone else). Be proud of you and flaunt your uniqueness wherever you go.
Thanks for reading and hope my little words of encouragement are able to lighten your moment.