When you don't know what you want in life, it gives to you anything it pleases. But whatever life chooses to give to you that you didn't ask for is hardly pleasant.
To get the good things of life, you must place demands on them. Life will hardly give to you any good thing that you desire unless you place a demand for it. When you don't have a clear understanding of what you want from life, it gives you whatever it pleases. The sad thing about allowing life to decide for you is that it gives you what it likes and what it likes may not be very pleasant to you.
So you must place a demand on life if you want to have your dreams achieved. The decisions you make and the way you live your life will reflect the type of demands you're placing on life. If your actions doesn't correspond to your demands, life will not take you seriously until you start acting accordingly.
Place a demand on life and let your actions show that you really want it and you will have it.
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