HOW TO BE A ROLE MODEL TO YOUR CHILDREN
FATHER TO DAUGHTER
MOTHER TO SON
Parents are special in the lives of their children, and that goes a long way to tell the kinds of children oradult they will become. Parents plays a high and major role in the life of children, which can’t be found anywhere in life. We’ve parents in school as teachers and counsellors or day care homes or reserved home for children. High quality child care can have a positive influence on children’s development and school readiness by providing valuable educational and social experiences. High quality child care is characterized as
Having well qualified, well paid, stable staff, low child-adult percentage, and efficient management. Offering a program that covers all aspects of child development physical, motor, emotional, social, language and cognitive development.
CHILDREN ARE VERY INTELLIGENT IF TAPPED INTO THEIR POTENTIALS
Never underestimate the creativity of your children, learn to observe what they can do very well and polished it, develop them, create time to have an eye over whatever they take interest in doing, it could lead them to the great future and if you observe is destructive then you can control it.
Every child is your child so take it serious when you see children going to school, assist them, help them cross the road, help them walk to school safely or get into the Car safely.
EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS LEARNABLE
Everything in life we learn them in school, or home or even by reading and watching TV or observing what others do around us, with patience and gradually following the right principles and guidance we’ll have very good and vibrant children, but give them the opportunity to learn new things new stuff and new programs for children it goes a long way into their future.
As a mother, you want your little one to stay young forever. But wouldn't it be great if sometimes they could just tell you what was wrong? Case in point, when they're moody under the weather, and you can't seem to figure out how to ease their symptoms that could be tiresome, worry and deep concern as to what to do about your baby.
SAFE CHILDREN FROM ABUSE
We can do a whole lot to keep are children from abuse and safe from wicked and unreasonable men, Biologically, children will always believe anyone they knew for a very long time, the elderly person might have good intention towards the child or bad intention. That’s why raising a child is something very serious and delicate, it should be taken very seriously because our future and extension.
EDUCATE YOUR CHILDREN PRETTY EARLY
Educate your children pretty early, it goes a long way into their future and the very life they will live in the future much later. No children should be left behind without care, every child should have care and concern for them to understand in a better way.
GIVE CHILDREN ENOUGH CARE
Children love to be around someone who make them feel comfortable and play with them, someone who can tell them stories, read books, and play games with them, someone who can spend enough time to teach them something they will always appreciate in life. Children learn and grow faster in life when someone is there genuinely to care for them, children are very versatile hence they know too little to care or worry about their mistakes.
CHILDREN NEED A CLOSE CARE
Children are always curious to know why, they should play with the boy down the street, they want to know why they have to stay indoors even when they are not so fixed to reading and solving school or class home work. Children will always do well when the Father is there to have a good look at their home work, and Mom is there to encourage him/her, they will feel compelled to try to do well because there’s a supervision over them.
IT GOES A LONG WAY FATHER RELATIONSHIP WITH DAUGHTER.
As a father you are the first male role model for your daughter and will continue to remain so. She needs your attention in all the phases of life; childhood, adolescence and adulthood. therefore, do not distance yourself when she becomes an adolescent.
Give her enough attention because she’ll follow your instructions, listen to her, right from her birthday and do something special to her. Keep an eye on her movements as a baby, listen, play, and read with her as a child, and enquire her about friends, and give her the confidence that you are genuinely interested in her.
Accept her whether you agree or disagree, support and accept her decisions graciously as long as the choice decision, taken by her are genuine. In cases when they are not, speak to her and examine various options together and deal with the situation.
Women generally love to be appreciated either in words or deeds, as a Father learn to always tell her that she is beautiful compliment her for her smile, hair, and the dazzling sparkle in her eyes. State the importance of a beautiful heart and inward beauty than outer beauty. Love, communication and acceptance are the means to develop a strong father daughter relationship, cherish her she’s yours.
MOTHER TO SON RELATIONSHIP A GREAT COMPANIONSHIP
Mother to son relationship is another beautiful combination of lifestyles that build life in a beautiful way, mothers teach your sons how to Communicate properly. Moms who are tuned into their sons’ nonverbal communication, and who teach them emotional intelligence are setting them up for success later in life, both in personal relationships and at work. From the days we urge our kids to use his words to speak well of his friends and siblings and also not to use abusive words in school or at home, and not to take wrong communication out there, and not accepting our teenage son's grumble as a respectable response to a question, we instill critical and necessary watch and the communication skills to help them navigate adulthood.
Another way to stay in your son’s life is to get to know your son’s school friends, and when possible, welcome his friends into your home so they can get to know you. Also learn to love having your sons’ friends over in the house so that you can also affect their lives positively so that they too will have a good guardianship, care and love, and not only because to get to know who your son is hanging out with, but it makes your son or kids feel good about themselves knowing that you want them and their friends around.