FORGIVE... SO YOU CAN RECOGNIZE AND RECEIVE GIFTS AND OPPORTUNITIES GOD HAS SAVED FOR YOU..!!!
Many teachers, poets, writers and to psychologists have written about forgiveness and its significance, and to us, on occasion, have try you to explain to someone dear, the useful sense, with intended to motivate him to practice by their own welfare, but in truth we are able to forgive?
Before committing us to work on forgiveness, we should ask ourselves if we are actually ready to turn the page, to put us in the place of the other person and understand their behavior, to let out anger, heal our wounds, release and give us another chance, even taking the risk to hurt us again... Because only in this way can obtain essential relief that will allow us to really put that memory to where they belong: in the past.
I have discovered for myself that make forgiveness from the heart, having assumed the pain it might cause us a person or a situation, frees us, giving back us the inner peace and joy in our hearts. Suddenly, and as if by magic, we feel strengthened, relieved, as if we had removed us a huge emotional weight off, I would say rather that from within, and that even though were not able to recognize; Once we fight him, disappears that slim but grey mantle that was covering us and that heat our interpretation about the life and the happy moments.
When we speak of forgiveness, it is good to think about those small discussions and daily differences we have with the couple, with our children, with its neighbour, with our boss or our co-workers, that usually bother us, we alter and even they upset the rest of our day but as we consider them as small, we think that not worth stopping our activities, to invest a few minutes of reflection and practice forgiveness, so that we could avoid to remain within us generating anger frustration, helplessness or resentment, doing so much damage to ourselves. It is important that we take conscience of the importance that has to decide and not bear more heavy ballast which means these negative emotions.
We think that insofar as we are willing to face the difficult past, we can detach ourselves from pain, anger or resentment more quickly, and thus to fill all that space inside with love, empathy, joy and confidence in us, in humans and in the divinity.
It feeds your life and fill your heart with the love you feel towards your loved ones and with the memory of the positive and pleasant moments of your life. Use this love to forgive, do it from the heart and not out of obligation.
When you feel that everything to you about moves and changes, find your inner strength. Always keep your faith and in the belief in divinity, remember that you do not face any single situation. It relies on your ability to start if necessary.
Get in the place of the other when we know the situation and the example that was the life of the person to which we are going to forgive, is easier to understand their ignorance or limitation, and without justifying it, practicing forgiveness.
Errors and bad experiences help us to move forward, as we are taught to deal with the present with more wisdom, compassion.
It is worth feel free to all that poison that we planted any time. Does not deserve that we continue remembering him for the rest of the life... forgives and passes the page!
