Hallo Steemits Friends!
This article is for women. Although men, too, can to accept participation and discuss the that I write.
Today seemed to me very cheerful and intrigued. I went to the beauty shop to buy only lipstick, but on the way I began to stop the consultants and offer me to try the products :from the first wrinkles, for the youth of the hands, mascara and my eyelashes will seem long. I understand it's their job to sell and make money. But no one asked me, «Am I interested??».
Magazines I've stopped buying, because they. They reflect the emptiness and superficiality of women's interests. No deep thoughts or complex ideas or interesting articles and values vtorago "I".
Everyone should be comfortable, easily digested, nothing should be said about true women's values or the development of the inner world. Everything is aimed at the external, to achieve physical attractiveness in order to charm a man, prepare for motherhood and become a good housewife. For what? Just to «seize» a man and hold him. And nothing is said about the most important: how to «seize» itself and be realized as a real woman.
It was sad to see women held hostage to socio-cultural patterns of behaviour. It is not difficult to understand why a man does not take a woman seriously or on an equal footing, because she herself refuses the real existence and is limited to various games. Women play in life, in marriage, in love, in work. Nothing is taken seriously and used to pin their hopes on a man.
A huge number of women devote all their efforts, time, imagination and feelings to care for their own appearance in order to find the appropriate man, emotionally cling to him and feel confident. Women are so absorbed in the love stories of their friends, acquaintances, stars. In this way, they identify how successful and effective methods other women use to find and retain men. Women are constantly improving their ability to attract, so they have neither the time nor the desire to engage in the development of internal values and implementations of themselves as an individual. They are close to the heart perceive any love stories, comparing themselves with their heroines and in your mind, continue this sexy game.
To be successful, a woman must focus on herself. And for women goal life-physically and emotionally hook up to prejudice any a man and to live through him.
It was essential for a woman to understand one thing: there was no need to ask permission from a man to be released from the custody of a man and to achieve equality. All you need to do is to achieve psychological autonomy and develop your own potential.
A woman is perceived as an object due to the fact that consciously or unconsciously it is considered that she is empty and meaningless. Such stereotype never surprises, we got used to see magnificent models with the atrophied brain, and for men they are the most desirable. Seeing such success, women want to imitate them, as well as dress and behave. As a result, every day a woman becomes less a person and more an object.
What is the difference between a person and an object? While an object has only an outer side and is just a thing, an individual must have an inner life to be such. A woman has to work on herself to become a person.
