I strongly agree with you on this!! I can relate very much as I was and somewhat still in a down time in life but I always do my best to see the brighter and better side of things. That helps out immensely and usually keeps me in a good mood. There's no point is being sad or angry over something you can't control. I'd rather be happy but of course there are those horrible times which are also needed too. Sorry for the long reply, you seem like a great teacher to me