I DO NOT ALWAYS GET WHAT I LIKE, BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS LIKE ANYWHERE I GET.
The words above is a form of gratitude. Thanks giving is the most important quality of a heart. We will always be thankful with suffused sense of peace, peaceful and happy. Instead, the feeling of not being grateful will always overwhelm us. We will always feel less and not happy.
There are two things that often make us not grateful. First: we often focus on what we want, not on what we have. Let's say you already have a House, vehicle, a regular job, and the couple the best. But you still feel less. Your mind is filled with a variety of targets and desire. You are so obsessed by the great and beautiful houses, luxury cars, as well as the jobs that bring in more money. We want this and that. If you do not get it we continue to think about it. But strangely, despite already get it, we simply enjoy the pleasure of the moment. We are still not satisfied, we want more. So, regardless of how many treasure we have, we could never be "rich" in a real sense.
Let us align our understanding about the '' rich ''. People are '' rich '' is not a person who has a lot of things, but people who can enjoy whatever they have.
Surely it shouldn't be-okay we have a desire, but we need to realize that this is the root of feelings is not at peace. We can change these feelings by focusing on what we already have. Try to look at the circumstances around you, think you have, and be thankful. You will enjoy life.
Focus on the good qualities of your boss, spouse, and the people around you. They will be more fun. An author once said, '' Marry your loved ones, then love the person you marry. '' This is a manifestation of gratitude.
There is an interesting story about a grandfather who complained because they could not buy shoes, but the shoes have long been broken. One afternoon he saw someone who does not have legs, but remained cheerful. It was also the grandfather of stop complaining and start being grateful.
The second thing that often makes us not thankful was proclaimed that the tendency of ourselves with others. We feel others more fortunate. Wherever we go, there is always someone more clever, more handsome, more beautiful, more confident, and richer than us.
I remember, the first work I always compare my earnings with colleagues during the lecture. This feeling makes me restless and agitated. As an exemplary former student on campus, I feel uneasy each knowing there's a fella a force who earn above me. In fact, there is always a fella that income exceeds mine. I became fond of bergonta-change jobs, just to keep up with my colleagues. I don't even care about the type of work, the bigger the pay was important. Until it finally dawned on me that this never will be endless. I turned and started thanks to what I got. Now I really enjoy my job.
The neighbor's grass is indeed often seemed greener than the grass in the yard itself. There is an interesting story about two patients of a mental hospital. The first patient was sitting termen ung while murmuring, ' ' Lulu, Lulu. '' A visitor who asks odd issues facing these guys. The doctor replied, '' these guys are so crazy after his love rejected by Lulu. '' SI manggut-manggut visitors, but other cells that late he was surprised to see its inhabitants constantly them his head on the wall and shouted, ' ' Lulu, ' Lulu '. '' These people also have a problem with Lulu? '' he asked in astonishment. The doctor then replied, '' Yes, he eventually married Lulu. ''
Life will be happier if we can enjoy what we have. Therefore thankful is the highest heart quality. I would like to end this article with the story of a mother who were floating in the sea because the boat sank, but still happy. When asked why she replied, '' I have two boys. The first one was dead, the second life ditanah across. If successful, I'm very happy because it can meet with my second child. But even if drowned, I would also be happy because I will meet with my first child in heaven. ''
Be thankful!
Be thankful that you are not ready to have everything you want ....
Had been, much less to be desired?
Be thankful when you don't know something ... Because it give you the opportunity to learn ...
Be grateful for the hard times ...
In the time that you grow ...
Thanks to keterbatasanmu ...
Because it give you the opportunity to develop ...
Be thankful for each new challenge ...
Because it will build your strength and karaktermu ...
Be thankful for the mistakes that you made ...
It will teach you a valuable lesson ...
Be thankful when you are tired and weary ...
Therefore you have to make a difference ...
Maybe we're thankful it's easy to be a good stuff ....
Abundant life comes to those who are also thankful to be receding period ...
Gratitude can turn negative things into positive ...
Discover how grateful will your problems and all of that will be a blessing to you ...
