Dear Minnow,
Yesterday, I heard the story of someone that unfollowed another because of upvotes. She complained that she was not given an upvote hence she cannot continue to follow. Very funny but true. I never knew people can be that petty on this platform. You see?!
If everyone gave everyone upvotes then that is going to defeat the purpose of this platform; which is to curate quality contents. People should (must) deserve the upvotes they get because all we have is PROOF OF BRAINS.
Its a fairly simple formular. Just prove that you have brains and people will reward your brain work.
Now back to the topic at hand;
When people unfollow you, just LOLX and move on. No matter the size of their SP. No matter who they are. Provided you are on your right. Trust me, they are going to unfollow. Many will unfollow when the fire you carry becomes too hot for them.
BTW: That reminds me of this Bruno Mars song: "I'm too hot!!! Call the police and the fireman...!!!"
Do not allow anyone to step on you.
Many people give leeway for others to push them around. Many people enjoy being stupid. Perhaps because of MONEY, POWER, FAME or in a bid to achieve GOALS when you feel you need the person. What you end up acheiving is a low self-esteem instead.
Do not allow anyone to talk down on you. Do not allow anyone to trample on you. If they can't respect you, then let them leave. When they leave, it will only leave bruises but you won't bleed. (Think about that).
Even if you bleed, you won't bleed out.
You won't die. As long as you keep your candle burning and you continue pursuing your dreams you will never bleed out. Infact, if anything, give it time and they will come back because they must need you.
BRUISES! Hurt too...
Yeah, it does hurt especially when you were expecting much good from the person(s) in question. Don't allow the hurt to weigh you down. It will not be worth it. YOUR DREAMS ARE WORTH MUCH MORE.
Open your door for people to leave and enter at will.
WillPower is a gift to all humanity so allow everyone to exercise theirs. And you exercise your own WILL POWER in chasing your goals. Your will is one of the major things you have; use it wisely...
BE HUMBLE STILL...
Be willing to learn. Be willing to respect others...be willing to earn your honour and respect by the good works you do. There's a thin line between humility and stupidity. Learn how to walk that line...
1 STEEM GIFT for the person that gets the quote below...
"Sit down! Be Humble!"
Say farewell to those who walk away...
GOODLUCK as you chase your dreams!
If you don't have dreams, get your now. They are free of charge!
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