I realized yesterday that a man can't always be at his self control phase for a very long time, there must be a certain point in time that he must grow and learn to leave his self control phase and begin to think so deep and ask himself some useful and needed questions like "what if I'm wrong" "what if my judgement is not clear enough" That's when maturity comes in without which a man will always think and act like a 10years old baby who always think that he's in total control of everything around him.
Maturity will make a man so flexible to correction and it will be so easy to commune and interact with such fellow because those around him will know that he has reach a level that make him intellectually versatile and he's no more a baby 👶 up there but rather a grown up man.
For you to grow intellectually you need more than your selfish interest, you must also tend to other interest and put the two on the same scale and then conciliate between the two profoundly, that's when you begin to grow.
No matter how old you are when you can't make a profound decision by yourself then you are still a baby, you need to grow!!!
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A man that can't make a useful decision without imposing himself on others or without feeling too big than others around him is still not yet mature, also a man that did not know how to hide his personal problems while relating with others around him is still a child too and such individual need to grow.
When you refuse or rather fail to grow up as a man no matter how rich you are monetarily your mental/intellectual deficiency will surely mark you for failure and that's why you need to grow up today and make your living a legacy worth imitating.
Thanks for taking your time to read this pious motivational post, stay tune for more motivational thoughts from your homeboy
