Joy Vs Happiness
Most of the people among us don’t know the difference between joy and happiness, And why should we know the difference between these two? The answer is because you want both the things in life. Let see first what is joy? Joy is the feeling of pleasure. Joy attaches to some kind of action. Action could be different: no matter what you’re doing, eating delicious food, wearing terrific clothes, hanging out your loved ones and friends, going on a safari or having sex. When you do these things you get pleasure as a result but it's no longer lasting. If you had delicious food yesterday, you’ll not get the taste or pleasure next day there is no way you can get pleasure several times without repeating the action.
If you went to an adventure, you'll feel extraordinary but when you reached your home, you miss those fun. Same thing also follows in case of sexual desire we did that again and again, and it became an addictive habit. Overall joy is not a bad thing if you have control over mind. But you know these cheap thrills also responsible for the drug & alcohol abuse.
Now come to happiness, I found true happiness does not depend on any action. The key of happiness is calmness. Peace of mind is happiness. Take an example if we are at our home doing nothing exciting but we still feeling extraordinary is true happiness. True happiness is very rare in the world these days. Because we have become addicted to action generated pleasure. Less amount of thought in our mind more we'll stay happy. We know that we want to prove ourselves genius but the true genius doesn't gain unwanted knowledge. Don’t feed your mind garbage. Try to gain only useful knowledge. When you do it, you'll find yourself happy with no reason, and to be happy does not mean by laughing foolishly, Get happiness you deserve.
Do meditation every day. Mediation to make your mind calm. These days fools are doing mediation to get materialistic things. Doesn't mean you can't get these things with mediation. You can get but if you’re doing mediation and hard work both for materialistic things.
what will you do when you need some help to fix the disaster of your naughty uncontrolled mind…. Think about it…
