If you want to grow, you don't just need success in life. Failure is also part of it. Failures are there to bring about great changes in us. Behind every pain and every problem lies success.
We should deal with our problems differently. We should try to see the good in our problems. Most people think that you can only be happy if you don't have any problems anymore, but that's wrong. You must realize that there will always be problems. The problems grow with success. That's why you should start loving problems. With effort comes success and the problems do not get less.
I would suggest today to see the treasure behind every problem. Embrace your problems, they help you to grow and become bigger and stronger. To master the problems we have to change. We have to learn new skills and face things differently.
Stand in front of a mirror and look into your eyes and start to love your problems.