Many of them lost their dreams in the view of people around them. we as a whole surmise that "how will they consider us and what will they talk about us".
Our greatest mix-up is, we expect only the good vibrations from everyone if they didn’t give their good remarks as per our expectations. we just stop our process, proceed to hate ourselves and griping our destiny.
See, how easily others remarks or responses can demolish our internal peace and our self-assurance.
The reality is that we need negative comments for further improvements but the thing is not from everyone.
I have a decent answer for this,
- Select one of your closest companion.
- Ask him to report just your shortcomings regardless of whether everybody congratulated.
- He should never praise or congratulate you for your work.
- Ask him to pinpoint straightforwardly what you have done wrong.
- Repeat the point no. 1.
With the goal that you can only expect negative vibes. You cannot expect any positive vibes from him.
Don’t bother about others.
Finally,
It will assemble you.