My entrepreneur father never went to school but build his mansion at early stage of life.
Growing up under this kind of man was something different and difficult. I will never agree with my father school of thought about life was my mindset. How can a father kick against Education but believes in skill acquisition. I fought his believe at every bit of my chances! He was so close to me ironically!
As I grew older, I realized that my entrepreneur father ideology was right. My entrepreneur father mindset was that entrepreneur produces employer while school produces the employees. Employees push the business for the employers on the long run.
This cycle of paradigm shift was what prompted me to ask my entrepreneur father this question.
Me:- What was the biggest mistake you made at early stage of your life.
His response:- I was fraud by a white man who outsource my wealth with strategies.
Me:- How do you recover.
His response:- When your life is not dictated for, you break limiting rules.
Then I realized, there are Five stages that conditions our being:-
- Your beliefs.
- Your home.
- Your society
- Your friends.
- Your school.
If a lady is a prostitute, one/two of this five stages has work against her being.
If a guy is a fraudster, one/two of this stages has work against his being.
This reminds me of a school friend who says to me many years back, I don't need to work when I grow older. I was curious and ask why? He said, all I need is date and marry a wealthy lady and that birth my fortunes. I saw him like two months ago, I reminded him of his statement, he said, he his still searching for that kind of a lady. He his currently jobless but invest his time on looking good to attract that kind of woman. His long time belief has conditioned his life towards such decision.
Our belief about life has placed us where we are today. Subconsciously, things we hear, see and perceive as a way of structuring us to who we are today. We are where our long time beliefs has placed us.
Some persons believes life is a school of luck, so everything that happens to them is tagged LUCK.
Some persons conditions their mind to believe they can't outsmart others, till today, they are still living average.
Some persons conditions their mind that they can never buy a house or own a car of their choice and till now they don't even think about it.
Some persons believe they can never get a good wife or a good husband maybe because of past experience and till date, they never had one.
Others believes they are destined to be who life has conditioned them to be, so they are becoming what life programmed them to be.
These set of people has a set rules of belief. This belief might has been triggered by an experience in the past, an event of the past and subconsciously begin to form their belief pattern.
But see; life doesn't care about what holds us down, what we went through or what makes up our belief system. Life only responds to what WE decide and demand. To become a game changer in life, you need to re-programme and re-wire your being (Your entire existence)! This is why you need to learn, un-learn and re-learn. You cannot continue to operate your existence under the past 10years disbelief system or experience you had; you have to integrate a responding system that put you in the right state of being.
Hold on a minute; look at this! You cannot operate an android phone with a Nokia touch mentality! Learn how this works! Upgrading is fundamental!
You see, thinking about life is good but choosing what you think about is better and going for only what you think is better is the best.
Thinking positive is good healthy living.
How healthy are you with your THOUGHT?
My entrepreneur father said; you can't conquer the world you live in UNTIL you conquer the world you can't live without!
How are you conquering your own limiting beliefs?
Beliefs you can't live without but tearing you apart! What are you doing about them?
How you found this tips helpful today?
Stay healthy with positive beliefs!!!