Everything starts from a tender stage. Every living creature have a root. Nobody started BIG! It will surprise us to know that some people had upholded themselves to be greater than others and some people have accepted their fate as lesser humans.
Life's never meant to be so but that's how the mindset happens to be. People just couldn't hold on to their worth and loss everything as a whole.
Let me take you down two processes of loosing self-esteem;
(a)DISCOURAGEMENT
This particular act occurs incontrovertibly in some people's daily lifestyle. It happen unconsciously in everybody's case. Most at times, It start from the inner self, destroys the mindset and unable the person carry out a given task at hand. It makes the victim loose focus and dull in what they are doing. It becomes a problem when other people's opinion serve as priority when they can't believe in themself anymore!
⏩THE ONLY SOLUTION TO THIS IS TO FIGHT IT FROM WITHIN. IMMEDIATELY, THE THOUGHT OF DISCOURAGEMENT COMES TO HEART, YOU ATTACK IT WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS EVEN BEFORE LISTENING TO PEOPLE'S OPINION.
(b)UNCERTAINTY AND PHOBIA
The next stage happens to keep the individual in an unsure state and fear of the future. Whereas, self-abasement and self-abnegation sets in and that will eventually abandon the victim in a phobic track.
⏩MY SOLUTION TO THIS IS TO PAY ABSOLUTE ATTENTION TO ONE'S SELF. READ AND LISTEN TO SOUL-LIFTING NOVELS AND TAPES TO STIR UP ONE'S SELF-ESTEEM.
When we observe these difficulties amongst us, we should try our possible best to encourage ourselves and help others in similar situations. Thank you!