The difference between success and failure, wealth and poverty, and attraction and rejection is attitude. You will be happy to know that you can dump negative attitude and develop positive attitude in many areas.
- Your attitude towards life
There was a story of two people who were told to give their assessment of water a glass cup filled to have. One saw it as half-filled while the other saw it as half-down. The difference between the two of them is attitude. The first person's attitude is positive; he believed the water is going up. But the second person's attitude is negative; he saw the water going down (almost finished).
Like the water in the glass cup, life presents equal opportunities to everyone. Its individuals that determine what you get out of it.
You've got to develop the right attitude by creating your own environment emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually.
Communicate to your mind daily, telling yourself the best is prepared for you in life, and you will get nothing but the best. - Your attitude towards people
Having right attitude towards other people is very important because you need good relationship to get the best out of life.
It has been said often that, "no man is an island". That is, you can never go far in life by keeping to yourself.
Research carried out by some relationship experts revealed that; the money you make in any endeavor is determined only 12.5% by knowledge and 87.5% by your ability to deal with people.
Don't be hostile to people, be friendly and you will be surprised how much you are loved. - Your attitude towards money.
Money has eyes and wings. This is the reason it goes only those who have receptive attitude towards it, and move away from those who have hatred for it. (Not because they don't like money but because they feel money didn't like them). Could that be the reason money has not come to you?
Before you can be rich, you must have it in your belief system that you can be. Not thinking about being rich alone, you must also think of how much of it you want to acquire within a targeted period of time, and pursue it honorably. - Your attitude towards starting a project.
Another area you have to develop a positive attitude is on your approach to starting new things. Some people never start anything in life because they feel they cannot complete it if they start. That is their belief.
If you see any task or project as insurmountable it will remain so. But if you see yourself having the ability to face it you will achieve great success on it. After all, some people might have done that kind of project before, that should be a clue that you too can do it. No matter how difficult a task might appear to be, tell yourself, if others can do it I can do it too and you will be surprise at how much success you will achieve. - Your attitude towards yourself
The worst thing anybody can do to him/herself is to be his/her own enemy. This is because your attitude determines your altitude, and if your attitude is always negative when it comes to life issues, it's going to be difficult to go forward in life.
To attain greatness with your life, you've got to like yourself even if you don't like what you are experiencing presently. Keep saying to yourself what you want to see and not what is happening.
Also, read books and listen to motivational audios and videos often, and never move with people with wrong attitude. Doing so continually will shape your thinking and ultimately your attitude.