Many of us confide with hearts like "why haven't I moved on ?, Even though I have long been sincere". No, such statements will not be said by someone who is truly sincere.
Because when you have been sincere, of course like whatever way he left you, no matter how sad he hurts you, if it is sincere already embedded in the heart, really all regrets will no longer haunt.
So it's easy to prove that you have moved on or not, you just have to playback your memories when with him, if your heart is doing well then your sincerity is correct.
When you are sincere, then whatever hurts his actions to you, it really won't bother you even though you remember.
But on the contrary, if you remember it still invites hatred, invites revenge, and makes you swear obscene then that means you have not been sincere, even though the word sincerity often comes out of your mouth.
So you don't need to reveal the question "why does it still hurt, even though I have already done everything". Oops, sincerity is not proven just because you have often issued the word sincerity from your lips.
However, sincerity is realized when you remember it no longer has a roaring pain, and there is no heartbreaking hatred.
Then, if you remember it, it is still very suffocating, meaning you cannot sincerely say it, so it is appropriate if you have not moved on.
So, learn sincerely to the heart, not just talk, so that your heart truly returns to welcome someone new in the future.
Difficult? Learn! Because like a broken glass, it will be very difficult to restore it as whole as it once was, even though it has great adhesive material made to make it one.
For what time is it stuck in a time that can't come back? Do you not want to return to living happily with someone new?
Be aware that the owner of the heart is upset, if he is firm enough to leave you with a very painful way, then you must be firm in expressing everything.
You must prove that you are fine without his presence, and you are able to be better in the future with a more mature heart and self.