We constantly hear messages loaded with violence and eroticism that are not good for children, it's sad to admit that, no matter how hard we make efforts in our homes, childrens will eventually go outside and find all that.
Today we are going to see some things about the development of your children's musical preference
1. While they are in the womb.
Babies can perceive sounds and associate them with emotions and reactions later on. Thus, if when you are pregnant you put classical music, it is likely that later when your kid litsen to this music will help to end a cryng crisis or bad mood before going to sleep.
2. The ears continue to develop in the first months.
Strident music and very loud sounds can wreak havoc on the ears of the child, for this they have created some musical playlist that covers classic pop and rock especially for them.
3.Taste in children is generated through empathy.
So, if the baby have a little brother who listens to trendy music or a grandma who listens to country songs, the baby will be adding this music to his spectrum, there ford, if he used to listen only to the baby music that you put on him or go on TV, he or she will having the notion that diversity exists. As increase his interpersonal relationships that notion will be expanded, so maybe one day you will notice that the kid is singing an improper song arriving from the preschool.
4. The imposition vs the Alternative.
Refusing to put a song or interrupt it in half because it says something wrong will only increase your curiosity about it (What happens if I tell you not to think of a white elephant?) This does not mean that they can listen to what they want because we know that their minds They are in full development. So? We negotiate? You can listen to the song one more time, and then you will hear something that mommy propose and think you might like.
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5. Searching for alternatives.
The main problem is to make fresh suggestions to your children, suggestions that are equally striking to them. That is why it’s very important that you take time to look for pleasant options, possibly by positively influencing your child, that your friends also receive a bit of those options.
6. The understanding of the message.
If your child is growing up in an environment where violence is not common, you can explain the real meaning of a song that you deem inappropriate, they usually get a little scared and that's how he’s critical sense begins (we know it will be useful for more than your musical taste).
7. The essential is invisible.
You musical taste, what you hear in the car and sing in the shower will be worth more than anything you can say to your child.
8. Bring them closer to the music.
Seeing music lessons for some time will help them see music as a process of creation, they will respect it and maybe you will discover that you are the father or mother of the next Vivaldi.
9. Up to 12 years old the process consists of receiving what is in the environment.
From there, the real self-exploration begins (in all senses), including taste. It is increasingly volatile because the Internet offers many more possibilities than we had back in the 90’s. So it’s time to accompany him and, why not? Take advantage of nourishing our ears with music that we do not know.
10. Respect is decisive.
Even if we do not agree, the vital space of a person should not be transgressed; especially that of the beings we love! So, as we read this we probably remember ourselves as children, wanting to listen to some song, maybe teenagers singing Van Halen while they labeled us as crazy kids. It's all a matter of time, the good news is that, until we're 25 years old, we continue to expand our musical taste. In my opinion, the most important thing is to grow surrounded by love and respect.
