In my opinion some of the habitats include being congruent and Be self amused Being congruent is when you align with your thoughts, words and actions.

For example, if you want to kiss the girl, but doubt for fear of rejection, and try to hide your fear by acting with confidence, it will seem strange and undecided. Your words and actions are not aligned with your thoughts.

But if you're afraid to go for the kiss, then do not hide it. The will to show weakness is a sign of a confident and naturally attractive man.

If you feel nervous to get close to a girl and try to get close as if you were confident, it will become strange and creepy. That's why most girls think that kids are scary because they're trying to act. It is better to embrace and accept that you feel nervous.

What shows more security, being nervous and trying to hide it or be nervous and not be afraid to show it?

Sometimes, when I feel frustrated and see a girl I like, I do not try to get close to trying to emit a happy atmosphere. I approached to embrace my frustration, so the openness I use will look like this: Damn, I feel very frustrated with things right now, but I thought you were pretty and that I had to get close to you.

This will be genuine and fascinating. The more real you are, the more likely the girl is to listen to you.

The second one is Being congruent which means embraci

One of the few reasons we love children (kidding) is because they know how to have fun on their own; They know how to have fun. If a child wants to run and behave like an airplane, he will do it without feeling judged. The child accepts that you join in the fun, but you do not need to have fun.

In relation to women, being selfish expresses what you feel without wanting anything in return. If you want to get closer to this woman, you do it because you want to do it, not because you expect something from it.

Most guys focus on getting the girl to react, but what I want you to develop is to focus on how you can react.

You're not focused on saying things or doing things to please her, instead you're focusing on games.

If you say a joke, you say joke because it's fun for you, not because you want to get a reaction from it. You will not look into your eyes to see if you're laughing because you said the joke because it was fun for you. She has just been there.

When you begin to acquire the habit of having fun, you become a fun person. Not just with other people, but with yourself. You can have fun without anyone having to do everything. There's nothing better than going out with someone who's not trying to impress you and who can have fun, it does not matter if you're there or not.

This makes people want to join in the fun, because if they see you have fun on your own, they realize that you should be fun to go out with. This is the logic that makes women and people in general feel attracted to you.

If you approach a girl and she acts in a way that makes you uncertain about how you feel, you will not automatically react negatively to this on the basis of defensiveness, it will derive your positive emotions from yourself, not from your reaction. But when you focus on getting a good reaction from her, any negative reaction causes you to lose confidence.

Find control and focus on the reaction because it's something under your control.ng how you feel and not being afraid to express it. If you want to kiss her, try it. Just do it, do not wait for the right moment,