We are together for 3 years, he is 32, he is not a fragile physique, an athlete, all his life he was engaged in karate, then something else like that.
A year ago, my mother had a conflict with two drunken men. When the conflict was present, I and my man.
When these two started throwing themselves at my mother, waving their hands, my man disappeared somewhere. I did not even immediately understand where he had gone! As a result, the conflict smoothed and calmed down the rioters.
Swallowed the situation in silence, I thought, chance, probably. A year later he had a conflict with two hooligans, they took his phone and purse from him, and he tried to escape in response! Like this? And if they attack me in a dark alley somewhere, will he leave me and run away? Is it normal? How to live with such a man?