With my husband we live 6 years, an official marriage. Have children. Often began to notice some things that I regard as an absolutely disrespectful attitude to myself. Here, for example, such a case.
I have a birthday in 2 weeks. Since he falls on a weekday, I say to my wife: "Let's celebrate my birthday on Friday, well, not on weekdays. Let's call friends, maybe we'll go to a restaurant or a house, we'll arrange something? "
In general, I rarely celebrate my birthdays noisily, so this year I somehow wanted to arrange something like a holiday. The husband says: "Yes, of course, come on."
The same evening I learned that my husband had arranged with his friends to go fishing just that Friday for a week. A few days later my husband says to me: "Oh, let's celebrate your birthday in the week!". I ask why, because we decided on the weekends or on Friday and all my friends work for me, and the children at school and at school are very uncomfortable among the week.
He says: "I just go fishing with my friends." I say: "Maybe you will stay, I still have a birthday! I want you to be present. " The husband says: "No, I'm leaving." How would you describe it?