I am 40 years old. I have five children, we live in a village. Our eldest son is serving in the army, he is 20 years old, and the youngest is only 3 years old. My husband and I are divorced, but we live together anyway, because I have nowhere to live with children.
At first I tried to live separately, but soon I left with the children, the year was ridden and returned home again, even if the house is a property acquired together with her husband. The ex-husband is 43 years old. Previously, everything was normal, a big house, a big farm, children. Nothing foreshadowed in the family troubles, until her husband took his mistress. Also has gone, has gone. First he left the family when the youngest child was only 2 months old. I lost all my business (I was engaged in transportation), started to drink (although I did not drink before). Moreover, he also collected credited documents using fake documents (I only learned this later) and returned home in six months.
Scandals, drunkenness, beatings began, and I, unable to withstand such an attitude, left him. At this time we live with him under one roof, now he does not drink, because he was coded. He works, but he does not give money to children, he constantly humiliates and insults me. I went to work, but 50% of the salary is kept by the bailiffs for his debts. The children love him. The village is small, you will not tell anyone. Therefore, I write here to get advice or sympathy, I hope that maybe there will be a "vest" for me, in which I can cry.