I want to tell my story, from which I do not see any way out. Two years ago I met a guy Dima, and we started dating. Before me he had a girlfriend. We can not say that they met on the present, they were just familiar from childhood, and their parents were bound by a strong friendship. So they wanted their children to be married.
Olya, that's the name of the girl, she was in love with Dima since school, but he was just friends with her. When she found out that he had another, then he began to pursue him everywhere. She was used to spending much time with her and now demanded the same from him. Moreover, his parents, who already considered Olya their daughter-in-law, were on her side.
Sometimes he told me that we can not spend the day off together, because he needs to go to the cinema with Olya, so that his parents will not be offended. They planned to go to kebabs with their families and Dima also had to be present. I think that parents from both sides did it on purpose to show Dima that they are one family.
But he said that he loved only me, and he just did not want to offend a friend, since they spent all their childhood together. At first, I tried to understand him, and calmed myself with the fact that soon everything would change. But time goes by, and Dima still can not decide what to do. I tell him that Olya is a grown-up girl and must understand that she behaves stupidly and strangely. I would never want to marry a guy who does not love me.
But, finally, Dima made me an offer, but when Olya found out about this, she swallowed the pills and now lies in the intensive care unit. Due to these circumstances, our wedding is postponed indefinitely.
It seems to me that this will never end, but I'm ready to wait a little longer. And I can not understand Dima's parents: do they really care about the destiny of someone else's child than their own son? Let it even the daughter of their close friends.