You are not alone, there are a lot of divorces happening now that this awareness of narcissism has awakened so many victims. I hope that this will provide some comfort to you during this difficult time.
I hope the video has helped and I will be posting more soon. There is a woman on YouTube named Michele who also went through a divorce from a narcissist with her two children. She has some great videos with information in this area. From Surviving To Thriving on YouTube.