1. In-Person - this is the only one that is part of Nature.
Eyeball to Eyeball, Heart to Heart, and Face to Face - and talking civilly to one another - which is lost to a lot of people. This is the only way the whole Truth can be seen of a situation involving other people.
These days, even a hand-written letter can be misconstrued. That is because most people don't have a common language that they can read, write, and comprehend, anymore. Get rid of that smart-phone - it is sucking your brain out through your eye-balls!
So, In-Person communication, in which the parties control their emotions in their speech and use "I" statements is the only way - but that is a tall order - what I just said.
Can you do it?
Control your tone of voice, keep your voice down, don't yell?
Not be accusatory?
Can you not use these manipulative tactics?
It's definitely something to continue to work at...
If you are using Online to avoid in-person because you are too afraid of confrontation - this will not work or it will work if you don't mind living in delusion - which it seems a lot of people are fine with.
2. Online - online (zoom) is great for putting forward information and taking in information, but it does not work for "negotiating a contract." - or "true heart-to-heart" communication because it is too easy to hide the truth about yourself. This is true for youtube videos and other types of videos, a substack and the chat that goes along with that - but it is still so easy to misunderstand what is being said and not "know" the person who is speaking very well.
Has anyone had this experience?
I know I have had it several times. I have met people on-line in a class setting or some other meeting on zoom, and then later I met them in person and they were totally different. They exposed things in person that they had been able to hide on-line and it was shocking to me.
3. Social Media - Can you imagine where this would happen in Nature? How is it possible for a swarm of hornets to attack a butterfly on a wall, with no consequences and then the Butterfly turns into an Ant Eater and sucks up all the Hornets without getting stung? Is this possible in Nature? No! Therefore it is a violation of Natural Law!
This is a huge pet peeve with me... Now, groups which used to meet in person, meet only on social media and duke it out with each other in ways that would NEVER happen in person.
Recently I was wrongly accused of stealing intellectual property - guilty until proven innocent - and a group of people in the social media chat talked about me but never to me - they assumed that they were making their concerns and demands known to me by convicting me on the chat -
but, thus far, I have said nothing. I just watched the "sociology class in action".
I am not going to reward bad behavior so I have not responded and will not respond to passive aggression in which I am supposed to be "vibed" into action by a bunch of fake people in a jurisdiction outside of the one I live in. They will have to contact me on the phone or talk to me in-person somehow so we can have an actual conversation.
Of course, I am in a lot of pain - I saw the true colors of people I thought were "friends" and now I have to cut them out of my life completely.
I guess you would call it virtue signalling by a bunch of fake-ass freedom people.
4. Email - is good for sending written documents as long as you are then going to meet in person to discuss them. Again, another death of a relationship happened here this
week.
Has anyone successfully negotiated a contract on email?
I have not and in fact, what might have become a good relationship, died on the email table as a result of the initiator believing that it was possible to just send it electronically!
People who believe this, are inherently materialistic - meaning that - rather than be altruistic - where you are thinking unselfishly of the welfare of others - instead you are thinking selfishly for your own welfare. It can never work in practice.
5. Text - Only good for ETA, and simple information about traffic, etc - and yet - people I know use it to communicate the difficult things - I guess because they don't want to do the first thing - meet in-person.
I have had some pretty horrible experiences of late with these jurisdictions.
Have you noticed this?
Do you know anyone who is 2 different people on-line vs. in person? A real Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde?
I try to be the same person everywhere.
This will be the destruction of humanity - trying to use these jurisdictions to replace IN-Person. We are playing into the hands of the Dark Occult - they are laughing there asses off at us!
