i love this!

Even when an apparent troll managed to infiltrate, the words used by moderators and membership alike to deal with him were steeped in respect. Because that's how these beautiful communities roll.

so true!

and this is so good:

So how indeed does this community make me thrive?

First, by raising my morale, indeed my true spirit itself.

--- i agree so much. One can debate whether online relationships are as "valid" as IRL ones, but truly these connections have actual effects on our spirits and wellbeing. real enough for me! beautiful response :)