To build a life that will envy, it takes time.
Writer Darren Hardy once said: "Successful people do what they do not want to do." If you want to live the life that others do not, then you must do something that others do not do.
Start the same. Tell people that you love them. Invest in your free time. Understand the baggage that shadows you back. Learn to manage your finances. And make a choice in favor of leaving something after yourself.
Such a life most desperately want, and envy, if he sees.