happy new working week here on steemit. here is my Weekly food for thoughts for singles and married men/women!
When pronouncing your marital vows, you should remember that wedding is for a day but marriage is a lifetime.
A greedystingy man who is single will still be stingy when married, It’s a fact that cannot be underestimated
Silence should never be misquoted if you want what nobody has had, you must learn to do what no one has ever done.
It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
you should always learn to avoid a contentious woman.
Ladies here are the four types of men you should avoid:
1. A hot tempered man or one that has mood swings almost every time.
2. A womanizer/flirter.
3. A drunkard.
4. A Chronic liar
Marrying a comedian or a rib cracking husband does not guarantee you a happy marriage. Strange but true
Never be yoked to any man/woman who will not be yoked to God.
Three most unused Words that echo peace in a marriage:
1. I love u.
2. I am very sorry.
3. Thank you so much
Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness, rather pray and seek the face of God for a solution.
In most cases cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.
Deal with anti-marital dreams always. Don’t ever see it as a mere dream; rather see it as a challenge to you.
Masturbation is gradual tool for destruction in men; think twice before u deep your hands into your pants.
Marriage without total devotion and friendship is like a sky without the sun or stars.
Do not rush into marriage just because your friends are getting married, If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny/dreams.
A successful marriage is always built on Christ solid foundation
Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice, so be careful before you make such choices.
A man needs divine wisdom/counseling from God before choosing who to marry.
Do not place your priority on good looks/beauty because beauty fades but a good character never fades; no woman is ugly, she just needs re branding.
5 major Characteristics to look for in a woman:
1. The Fear of God.
2. Wisdom, honesty and faithfulness
3. Discretion. Beauty is vanity without discretion.
4. Empathy that is the ability to understand the feelings of the other person and accommodate the point of view of another.
5. cooking abilities, there is a popular saying that says ” the only way to get through a man’s heart is through his stomach”
The best way to enslave a woman is to show her love, care and kindness excessively - as a rule, women don't run away from where they're pampered/treated as a queen.
Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind and sometimes we mistake them for love.
Love puts God first, but lust puts sex first before other things.
If you are a really true friend, you will attract true quality friends to yourself and vice versa.
Desperation leads to frustration. So therefore be careful what you wish for
So many bad marriages can be avoided before they even begin.
Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled no matter the circumstances you face, trust me, Your rewards will be astonishing
Marriage is a covenant between two souls; always look before you leap/jump.
It is better to be single and believing God for a future hubby than to be married and your marriage is in hell
A broken courtship or relationship is far better than a failed or broken marriage.
Do not marry money or property; marry a person because you truly love him/her because the lust for money will not buy you the love you deserve when the time comes
Always be presentable, you never can tell when you will meet your future wife/husband.
Week two of my weekly food for thoughts. hope you all find these tips useful, wish all my fellow steemians a splendid working week ahead.