If you follow me regularly here on this writing platform, then you've probably read an article I published regarding teenage girls on TikTok. Therein I criticized all the hype about it, and I pointed out that adult women are bound to feel insecure about seeing girls as young as their early teens with better figures than theirs.
The common tactic that these insecure adult women use to hide their true feelings about these teenage girls in TikTok videos is that they will rant and rave about how they believe that these girls are still children, even though medical science discredits their faulty opinion. Well, adult women, particularly in the United States, are becoming more and more envious of these young girls and masking their envy as concern for their welfare. Oh, brother.
You can only laugh at these adult women when you clearly see that they're not beauty queens. And, no, I'm not saying that men should objectify women or anyone, but facts are facts.
Putting imaginary diapers on these teenage girls is not going to fool us men out of noticing these women's weaknesses, and it's not going to stop adult men from admiring the beauty of teenage girls. If a 15-year-old girl who twerks on TikTok is a full-figured woman, she is definitely not a little girl, period.
It does not do justice to take these TikTok videos that show girls between 12 and 17 years old flaunting off their genetic gifts and compare them with episodes of Toddlers And Tiaras. It's like comparing apples and oranges.
According to various English dictionaries, the definition of a child is a boy or girl before puberty. None of these middle-school and high-school girls you see in TikTok videos are prepubescent, and they're all well beyond Tanner Stage 1.
1. Envious Adult Women's Wrongful Infantilization Of Teenage Girls
I stumbled across a YouTube video from a woman who goes by the name of Vera. In her video, she shows teenage girls and preteen girls that have some of the most precocious physiques that I've ever seen, and then she talks as though these girls are still in the playground-and-crayons phase of their lives.
Now, I don't mean to seem shallow. However, when you look at Vera, you can tell that she wasn't one of the popular girls in her middle school and high school back when she was a teenager. Probably no boy ever asked her out on a date back then. She's not ugly, but she's clearly a plain Jane.
Then it becomes clear that Vera is envious of these teenage girls' bodies inasmuch as these girls are getting to experience what Vera missed out on during her teenage years. Once again I'm not saying that Vera is ugly. She's not half-bad looking. She merely doesn't have the same charisma that former homecoming queens from her graduating class would now likely have in that she was probably a bookworm back then. Watch the video below.
A Number Of Teenage Girls Have Better Figures Than Adult Women Over 21 Do
Luckily, Vera never really spews any significant propaganda about how she believes that it's wrong for older men to take notice of these teenage girls on TikTok and how they need to stick to women their own age. It's not as though any man is going to follow her demands, anyway.
Now, I don't think that a girl should be getting tattoos on her body at 14 years old, but that's only because I don't like the idea of any teenager permanently ruining their body. It doesn't mean that I find anything wrong with a male college student admiring that girl's genetic gifts. Girls that young being in cross-generational relationships seem to be more out in the open in other cultures than in the American culture. I don't understand what makes the United States so different in that respect.
What exactly does Vera mean in her video that teenage girls are trying to go into adulthood without experiencing what it is exactly to be a kid? When these same girls were 6, 7, and 8 years old, I'm sure they played with Barbie Dolls and played with jump rope whenever they went outside.
Once you're a teenager, you leave all your childhood stuff behind. That's how it has been since the 1960s. Why should it be any different now? They're not growing up too fast, Vera. They're already grown up. Of course, you already knew that, Vera, because you wish that you had as hot of a body as they do.
It is probable that a number of these teenage girls as young as 12 years old who appear on TikTok have become influencers inasmuch as they want to rake in loads of money to put themselves through college. Scholarships and government grants are not reliable for funding a college education in this day and age here in the United States. Student debt is way out of control. Therefore, how can you rightfully blame these girls for wanting what is better than what society offers them?
In her video above, Vera asks whether teenage girls dressing up and dancing in a sexy manner in TikTok videos is normal. My response to her question is that normality is so overrated in our society that it's not even funny. In fact, the constant quest for normality in the United States is what's ruining our country.
Normality Is Destroying Our Society And Turning It Into A Herd Of Sheep
Vera? You have obviously lived a very sheltered life. Back in the 1990s before social media was a thing, there were middle-school and high-school girls dressing up in a sexy way and appearing on television talk shows to flaunt off their genetic gifts. This is nothing new. To know so, all you have to do is watch a rerun of The Jenny Jones Show on YouTube.
Throughout her video, Vera keeps pushing the word "children" at her viewers to describe these precociously developed teenage girls, when it is apparent that she only does so to deny that she cannot deal with the fact that there are girls younger than her who actually have a better figure than she does. She's not fooling anyone.
Vera doesn't like the fact that most of these middle-school and high-school girls have a bigger bust line than she does. Pushing the "they're-still-children" argument is her way of hiding her truly envious feelings from the world.
What's wrong, Vera? Did you catch your boyfriend or husband gawking at one of these teenage TikTok girls?
You take a teenage girl. She looks like a model for the swimsuit edition of Sports Illustrated magazine. She has a sexy dimple in her chin. She's absolutely gorgeous. Why won't she want to show off her hot body on TikTok?
I do have to commend Vera for not pervert-shaming any adult men who might like watching these girls or delving too deeply into the whole moral panic over "predators," so to speak. By the way, those predators are mostly teenage boys, but that's not here nor there. Herein I'm describing adult women who envy teenage girls' bodies.
Vera? Life doesn't begin at 18 years old. Perhaps it didn't begin until 18 years old for you, but most teenagers break out of their shells when they're either in their freshman year of high school or their last year of middle school.
Toward the end of her video, Vera tries to turn into the next Dr. Phil. I'd be curious to know what her actual credentials are in view of her statements, because, otherwise, she's merely running her mouth and throwing a load of rhetoric out there only to mask her own insecurities and envious feelings.
Vera? Let children be children and teenagers be teenagers. The two worlds have nothing to do with each other except in your biased mind.
I read some of the comments in the comments section of Vera's video above, and some of them were well-thought-out while others were intellectually bankrupt. Therein a YouTuber who goes by the user name of BoxaBole posted:
I guess there's a lot of pedophiles and predators on socila media, I guess mostly on tik tok
YouTuber BoxaBole? What does pedophilia have to do with anything that Vera talked about in her video above? The adult men that gawk at videos of the teenage girls shown in Vera's video above are not pedophiles but rather teleiophiles.
A pedophile is someone 16 years of age or older who is sexually attracted to a prepubescent child five years their junior. A pedophile is not going to watch a 15- or 16-year-old girl in a TikTok video who has a physically precocious physique and breasts bigger than those of some 20- or 30-something-year-old women. To a pedophile, a girl like that is no different from what an elderly woman is to us.
Accusing someone of being a pedophile merely for admiring the body of a teenage girl is as stupid as claiming that all 6-, 7-, and 8-year-old girls fantasize about being raped. It makes absolutely no sense at all. Pedophiles are too busy watching online videos of naked toddlers taking baths to do anything else.
YouTuber BoxaBole? You are what is called a self-appointed psychiatrist. That is, by accusing complete strangers of being pedophiles without any basis in facts, you're illegally practicing psychiatry without a medical license. That's a crime. You need to put a sock in it before you get arrested.
In the comments section of Vera's video above, a YouTuber by the user name of curiousmoa3998 posted:
With 16 youre not a child anymore lmao. Its normal that you want to look good. The beauty stuff is not new or anything. My mom (50) was not different when she was 13-18 and neither were her friends.
You are literally putting 6-10 yr olds in the same box as 13-18 year olds. I am 17 and I’m for sure not compareable to my 7 yr old sis, nor are my friends. Also, you can understand the consequences at our age. They are not children lol
YouTuber curiousmoa3998? You are correct. However, keep in mind that Vera is not going to agree with you, because you probably get more attention from the opposite sex than she does.
2. A Voice Of Reason Regarding The Realities Of Teenage Girls
There's another YouTuber who did a video regarding the same topic of the one in Vera's video. This woman's name is Madisyn Brown. However, instead of turning her video into a puritanical campaign, she was brutally honest about the topic. Apparently, unlike Vera, Ms. Brown has a brain inside of her head, and she obviously doesn't feel threatened by the beauty of teenage girls either. Below is her video.
Madisyn Brown Describes The Disappearance Of The Teenage Subculture From Society
Ms. Brown makes an interesting point about how the words "adolescents" and "teenagers" get used interchangeably despite that both of these words have different meanings. I admit that I also use the word "adolescent" to mean "teenager" and vice versa when I'm speaking and even writing. It's inevitable in the English language as a matter of habit, although it's not as bad as using the words "protein" and "nutrients" interchangeably.
In her video, Ms. Brown never attempts to sensationalize teenage sex as a form of child fornication or child molestation as some YouTubers do. In fact, she acts bewildered as for why there are fewer sexually active teenagers nowadays than there were in previous decades.
Unlike Vera, instead of throwing a load of propaganda at her viewing audience, Ms. Brown provides a history about how the teenage subculture evolved throughout the decades here in the United States. You can clearly see that Ms. Brown did her homework before she decided to film her video. There needs to be more women in the world like Ms. Brown and fewer women in the world like Vera.
3. Final Thoughts
On my street, there lives a 22-year-old woman who is perfect in every way. She has long, blond hair; a sexy bust line; a hot body; and every other female attribute you can possibly think of. She doesn't waste her time dwelling on teenage girls who look like models for the swimsuit edition of Sports Illustrated magazine, because she's a confident woman and she's perfectly comfortable in her skin.
Sexually insecure adult women need to stop making videos on YouTube and elsewhere on social media that broadcast the fact that they're envious of middle-school and high-school girls who have better figures and sexier bodies than they do. Nothing can hide these adult women's weaknesses, and they're only setting themselves up to be verbally shot down and humiliated.
Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not claiming that there have never been corrosive influences that have harmed teenage girls in the past. All you have to do is look at the case of Dianne Lake who was only 14 years old when she joined the Manson family back in the 1960s. Charles Manson was no asset to her, to say the least.
Nevertheless, we need to stop sexually insecure, envious women from pulling our nation further into a moral panic. The United States has enough problems as it is. Teenage girls are never going to go back to the way they were in 1957. It's time for society to deal with it.
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