1. Introduction
Let's set aside all the phony-baloney conspiracy theories out there about pedophilia, grooming, child trafficking, and the likes; and allow me to have us focus on the bare facts behind exactly what it is that is causing adult men to gravitate toward teenage schoolgirls for non-Platonic reasons. As you probably already realize, I'm not talking about 18- or 19-year-old women; even though adult men, especially over 30 years of age, get a truckload of flak for having romantic relationships with women that young here in the United States.
Never mind what Chris Hansen and other TV personalities like him have to say about this topic. Back in the 1990s, daytime talk show host, Montel Williams, once announced that elected officials throughout our nation were attempting to pass legislation that would lighten up on the American statutory-rape laws.
If you look at videos on YouTube of daytime talk show episodes from the 1990s, you'll notice that a number of them will feature interviews with age-gap couples in which the girl is between 13 and 16 years of age. These types of cross-generational relationships were slowly coming out of the shadows back then. Some of the adult boyfriends appeared on the guest panels in disguise, but they'd be willing to answer people's questions from the audience.
Most unfortunately, in 2004, Mr. Hansen apparently set out to capitalize on the trend of cross-generational relationships between teenage schoolgirls and adult men before society and the law here in the United States had a fair chance to accept it into the American culture. Eventually, elected officials swung the pendulum in the opposite direction in changing the statutory-rape laws afterwards.
Nowadays an adult man can't even smile at a high-school girl in a grocery store, without the store security flying at him and throwing him onto the ground. American society's paranoia has turned our nation into a puritanical black hole with no relief in sight.
2. The Source Of The Trend
A YouTuber who goes by the username of Losermaxxing posted a video about how missing out on the teenage dating scene and the entire first-love experience that it involves severely cripples men for life in the way that they relate to women after they reach adulthood. Watch the video below, and you will find how brutally honest he is in a frightening manner.
YouTuber Losermaxxing Contends That Teenage First Love Is A Milestone In A Man's Life And Success With Love Altogether
YouTuber Losermaxxing gets about everything right in his video above. However, the elephant in the room here that he conspicuously overlooks is the fact that often adult men who miss out on the teenage dating scene will attempt to make up for lost time by entering a cross-generational relationship with a teenage schoolgirl.
Now, I'm not encouraging anyone here who is reading my article to break the law, although I am no major fan of the American statutory-rape laws. Nonetheless, facts are facts.
When someone of the male gender misses out on landing a relationship with the one 13- or 14-year-old girl when they themselves are that young and they go on into their twenties without ever having experienced love, it leaves a very large void in their life that sometimes they feel they can only fill by hopping on a ship that has already sailed.
There is one thing that I know for sure. A virgin man in his thirties who has never had a girlfriend is not going to find the bluebird of happiness with a single mother his age or older who already has three kids from three different fathers. Even if he is the same age as that kind of woman, he will not be able to relate to her or find anything sentimental or passionate about his relationship with her.
YouTuber Losermaxxing is in his late thirties, and he apparently doesn't go younger with his love interests inasmuch as he likely has some kind of moral dilemma about it. He won't even date a woman in her early twenties. He sticks to women close to his own age who have nothing in common with him and nothing to offer him, which is sad.
Now, it could very well be that YouTuber Losermaxxing doesn't feel he would have a shot with a woman more than ten years his junior. In any event, I wish that he would have brought up the fact that the nostalgia that men his age and older suffer from never having experienced that teenage first love that many men experience during their adolescent years often causes adult men to gravitate toward teenage schoolgirls in search of love and romance.
The major difference between a 15- or 16-year-old boy having a 14-year-old girlfriend and a 36-year-old man having a girlfriend that young is that not only will a 15- or 16-year-old boy not have the same adult worries of bills, obligations, and the likes, but he won't have to worry about anyone siccing the authorities on him either. A 36-year-old man will not have that same luxury. That is, unless, of course, he lives in Bulgaria where the statutory age of consent is only 14.
Most unfortunately, American adult men have no place in the world to where they can legally go to find a teenage girlfriend that will make up for the loss of that one first love they could have had when they were teenage minors themselves, because there is this dreadful thing called extraterritorial sex laws that makes it illegal. Now, they can always renounce their U.S. citizenship, but sometimes that's not an easy road to take.
There is also this thing called marriage, and in other nations, a girl doesn't necessarily have to be at least 18 years of age to wed. Of course, whatever adult man takes that same avenue needs to be sure that he will not be confronting any ramifications upon entering the United States with his teenage bride.
The sex laws in our nation are doing more harm in their current form than they are doing good for anyone. Way too many men are falling victims to an elitist caste system that begins in middle school and follows them all the way to old age.
When you're a teenage boy in high school, sometimes you can get to feeling that love is only meant for prom kings and football quarterbacks. If nobody hounded these men about how successful or rather unsuccessful their love life has been after they enter their twenties, it probably wouldn't be so bad for them; but somehow these men always find themselves being singled out for such needless ridicule.
Being an adult man who is single and loveless for a prolonged period of time can adversely affect his ability to get along with his parents. They'll keep asking him when he's getting a girlfriend and getting married. They'll give him lectures about carrying on the family name.
Such a man may find it difficult to make friends. If people notice that he is unattached to anyone, they may not want to socialize with him in the event that they want to participate in social gatherings that are for couples only. The odds are always stacked up against him.
A law-abiding man who fits this same description may be careful about not getting into any situation where an underage girl may wish to meet up with him offline, because he doesn't really know what's at the other end of the cybernetic communication. It still doesn't prevent him from becoming wrapped up with a teenage runaway who is willing to do anything for him so that she can get out of the cold and off the dangerous streets.
When a man feels that he has been left behind in the world of romance and dating because of his absence of experience in the teenage dating scene during his middle-school and high-school years, he can be more easily led into tempting situations involving underage girls who may want to go as far as getting pregnant with his child to get back at her parents for being so strict with her.
It doesn't make such a man a bad person. It merely makes him a vulnerable person. He always knows that the law will never be on his side if he ever should cross that legal age line in hopes of intimacy. At the same time, he realizes that he cannot shut off his feelings for a teenage schoolgirl either if the situation of him becoming involved with one ever presents itself to him.
If an adult man becomes intimately involved with a teenage schoolgirl with impunity here in the United States, then he should consider himself among the very lucky. Busybodies are everywhere in the American culture. The law will show him no mercy if he gets caught.
The young girl's parents will want such a man dead, unless, of course, they're open-minded about teenage schoolgirls being in age-gap relationships. Even a situation like that won't guarantee him that he will be able to steer clear of the authorities. Nowadays government officials, especially in law enforcement, stick their noses into everything with no regard to parental rights or anyone's rights.
3. Toxicity Between Adult Men And Teenage Schoolgirls?
You may or may not remember Alicia Kozakiewicz from when she ran away from home at the age of 13 back in 2002 and ended up in the clutches of a 38-year-old man who trapped her as his sex slave. She currently runs a program called The Alicia Project, also known as Alicia's Project. Her boyfriend, Eric Lind, assists her in her efforts to conduct this same program. In the video below, Norman Michael Achin describes an unpleasant situation he has had with Mr. Lind.
Norman Michael Achin Reveals That Eric Lind Is In The Domestic Terrorist Closet
The police clearly violated Mr. Achin's human rights. Mr. Lind definitely has questionable behavior.
Everything in Mr. Achin's video is accurate except that Alicia Kozakiewicz was 13 years old rather than 14 years old when she got involved with the man in his late thirties that Mr. Achin describes. That man was 38 years old at the time rather than 39 years old. His name is Scott Tyree.
The interesting thing about Mr. Tyree was that he wasn't a man who had never had a girlfriend, a wife, or any sex before he victimized Ms. Kozakiewicz. According to news sources, he first got married at the age of 20, and he had gone through three divorces by the time he became involved with Ms. Kozakiewicz. I don't in any way condone what he did to her in the long run. He was a vile man and probably still is one. His prison sentence was well warranted.
Nevertheless, none of these events give Mr. Lind the right to harass and stalk Mr. Achin. Mr. Lind looks like a clean-cut man in the photograph of him that appears in an article about him and Ms. Kozakiewicz. In reality, he is a domestic terrorist, because he is taking advantage of someone whom the police railroaded.
I did verify that Alicia's Project does make regular contributions to the Internet Crimes Against Children (I.C.A.C.) program. If Mr. Lind behaves the way that he does, here is this one pressing question I have for him and Ms. Kozakiewicz. How can they not know about the rogue activities that I.C.A.C. task forces have been participating in throughout the United States? It's as though their mission to serve the greater good is completely corrupt.
Anyhow, Mr. Tyree does not represent the majority of adult men who fall in love with teenage schoolgirls. In fact, he doesn't even seem like anyone who is capable of falling in love at all. He's more of a control freak than anything.
In the comments section to Mr. Achin's video above, YouTuber @FelineDesperado posted:
I don't know anything about her story at 14 years old.... but it sounds like the typical scenario that gets twisted into a "predator" story.... 14 year old willingly hooks up with someone of an adult age and it's not the sex that was an issue, but the relationship turned bad that made her "traumatized" ...and then was probably brainwashed by therapists into thinking it was because he was a horrible predator and to blame the age difference when really it was just the guy she was with who was an asshole. When I was 14, I was with an older guy and he was really nice to me. I never saw anything bad about it and enjoyed the sex we had completely. Someone did try to tell me he was abusing me but I was smart enough back then not to listen to idiots assuming shit based on stereotypes. There was literally nothing abusive about it. I'm the one that hit on him when we met 😆
Ms. Desperado? If you're reading this article here of mine, allow me to commend you for being brave enough to post that same comment of yours. Social-justice warriors, self-proclaimed child advocates, self-appointed psychiatrists, self-appointed pedo-experts, and the likes are afraid of you. Why? It's because you're not afraid to speak the truth and to set all the facts on the table as they are rather than how they want them to be.
In that same comments section, Mr. Achin responded back to Ms. Desperado and posted:
Your story is the story of many who hooked up when young and are leading happy, well-adjusted lives as adults all these years later. I have heard from a number of them. While I don't recommend such unions, I don't think they are all inherently exploitative, either, based on what I have heard from people like you, and don't judge our great-grandparents either!
It is possible that back when YouTuber @FelineDesperado was 14 years old, her older boyfriend was a young man who had never had a girlfriend and was still a virgin before he first made love to her. Do I condone hebephilia or ephebophilia? I don't even recognize those two social constructs as legitimate diagnoses, because the American Psychiatric Association ("A. P. A.") doesn't do so.
Back when YouTuber @FelineDesperado was 14 years old, her older boyfriend was likely a teleiophile who was attracted to a girl barely in her teenage years that also happened to be a full-figured woman. That alone would give him a clean bill of mental health.
4. Final Thoughts
Teenage sex is everywhere. More and more young men are leaving their teenage years without ever experiencing the joys and pleasures of first-time love and the teenage dating scene as YouTuber Losermaxxing explained in his video further back herein. It could explain why there are more adult men gravitating toward teenage schoolgirls than there have been in years past here in the United States despite what society and the law have to say about it.
Self-righteous do-gooders like Eric Lind will demonize any adult man who shows a non-Platonic interest in a teenage schoolgirl any way he can. However, when he and other adult men view the video below, they cannot deny that their hormones are responding differently from what they want the world to believe. They can't deny a teenage girl's sex appeal when it's staring them directly in the face no matter what their so-called moral compass tells them to do or what not to do.
Attractive Teenage Schoolgirls Model The Latest Fashion In Clothing
If you look at the comments section to that same video, you'll quickly realize that none of the males there are teenage boys but rather adult men, some even old enough to be the teenage models' fathers. A few of them even donated money to these girls' YouTube channel.
Okay, I get it. There are some of you adult men out there that are probably saying, "Ew, yuck!," when you look at some of the comments that these same men have posted. Well, if you are actually a goody-two-shoes and you feel that way, you cannot deny that when you look at the video above, you probably wish that you had a girlfriend or at least a high-school date that looked like one of the teenage girls in the video above back when you were 15 or 16 years old.
There are some people out there that don't want me publishing articles like this one. Nonetheless, I'm going to keep doing so until I can enlighten as many people as possible on topics of this nature.
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