Happy new month guys!!!
Wish us all the best this month has to offer.
Thanks so much for joining me again in this series. I hope we all learnt a thing or two from the episode one.
Today, we will be discussing briefly on courtship.
Sit back, relax and enjoy the rollercoaster ride with me. I do hope at the end of this episode we must have learnt a few more facts about coutship.
Courtship
Let me quickly say this
Nobody needs money to date or court anybody.
You are not a husband yet. You don't have the responsibility for provision.
It's not a crime though to take care of some needs of your girlfriend. Do it only if you can, and want to. Don't go extra miles to meet the needs of your girlfriend, you don't need to... Except u want to.
When courting you should be able to define somethings, like what does sorry mean in the relationship.
When he/she can say sorry and explain why he/she is sorry, it's enough.
Nobody should be saying sorry to you from morning 🌄 till night 🌚 (that's evil).
When you hold on to your I'll feelings like that, you are creating a pathway to worship. That's a form of libation.
Holding unto grudges is just smallness of character.
There_are_three_ways_to_handle_apology (especially as a man);
√ When you are wrong, you apologize.
√ When you are not wrong, you still apologize because at times you are not wrong in what you have done, but you are wrong in how you do it.
√ Thirdly, at times you are right in what you did, and you did it right, but you still apologize. You apologize that the person you love ❤️ is feeling bad.
At no point are you allowed not to apologize.
When you can't apologize, it's a test of either your maturity, or a big question mark❔ on your love.
As a man, when you want to apologize, you take full responsibility for all that happened.
When courting, not all questions you ask your partner. Some you observe and get your answers. For example, you don't ask your partner if he/she is a committed person, they are definitely going to give you a positive answer✅.
The goal of courtship is to test the credibility of eternal commitment.
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See you in episode 3.